Oh, by the way, I still haven't come out as non-binary, gender fluid, butch femme, demi-sexual or aromantic to my parents, family or ex-sister (I sort of came out as plural to her, but regret that)
The reason being: I highly doubt they can even grasp what any of that means and they proof that fact very often and consistently to me.
So, I don't even bother.
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