One of the realizations I had and that helped me, is to realize that our experiences are unique.
Yes, we share experiences with cis people, but we don't have the same experiences as cis women or cis men.
We have trans experiences, which are unique, because we are unique.
It also solidifies the idea that we are not "just" transitioning from one gender to another.
We are unique people, with unique experiences and it's also why I resonate most with trans folks.
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