So apparently we're Sabby (more active right now again), me and "her".
She doesn't want to have a name, because names are for people and she just refuses to be a person and I'm fine with that. I just refer to her as "she" or any other she/her pronoun.
She's fine with that at least.
Also reason why I know that Sabby is more active: We changed our desktop wallpaper to more lewd stuff (and it including boys), which is his desires bubbling up and trying to help to cope with current stress.
Small, friendly instance for friends. Come join us and be cute and soft and small and cute.